I SWEAR THAT I DID NOT REALLY MEET A TALKING GULL
Today, a seagull seemed to insist I take its photograph, so naturally, I obliged. While amusing, this incident actually highlights a recurring theme I’ve been experiencing lately, particularly in recent months. Allow me to illustrate with a couple of examples:
Just before Christmas, I was standing outside an address when a gentleman in a rather expensive car pulled up, asking for directions. Upon realising I was at the very location he sought, he then took an interest in my camera and photography. He proceeded to request an “artistic photograph” of himself. I explained that portraiture isn’t my forte, as I lack the necessary skills, and suggested a studio on Dorset Street. However, he simply wouldn’t accept my refusal. Ultimately, I had to excuse myself and walk away.
More recently, yesterday in fact, while in Dun Laoghaire, a smartly dressed man approached me, acting as though we were acquainted. When I enquired as to his identity, he declared himself a fellow photographer. After a somewhat peculiar conversation, during which he styled himself an “artist” rather than a photographer, he asked me to take an artistic photograph of him. When I politely declined, explaining my reluctance to photograph people, he became quite agitated.
These encounters prompted me to seek advice from a press photographer acquaintance. He confirmed that my experiences are far from unique. Street photographers, he explained, often encounter individuals eager to have their picture taken. Some may feel flattered by the attention, assuming the photographer is doing them a favour, while others might react with suspicion or even hostility. He stressed the importance of maintaining a polite and respectful demeanour while remaining firm in one’s refusal if uncomfortable taking a stranger’s photo.
My acquaintance offered the following tips for handling such situations:
Maintain Politeness and Respect: Even when declining, politeness and respect are paramount. Thank them for their interest but explain that you don’t specialise in portrait photography.
Be Firm in Your Refusal: If you’re not comfortable, be resolute in your refusal. Don’t succumb to pressure or protracted arguments.
Disengage if Necessary: If someone becomes overly persistent or aggressive, it’s perfectly acceptable to walk away. You’re under no obligation to engage with someone who is making you feel uneasy.
Essentially, these incidents highlight the occasional oddity of street photography. While most encounters are fleeting and uneventful, there are always those who seek to turn a chance encounter into a personal photoshoot.